Emily and Alexander's wedding ceremony takes place with Positano and the sea as a backdrop, perfect for getting married in Italy.

Old Hollywood Morning: Emily and Alexander at Marincanto

Finger curls, a gold mirror, and a scrapbook read by the window. Emily’s old Hollywood morning before her Positano wedding.

Emily and Alexander posing with a stunning Italian coastal town backdrop, perfect for getting married in Italy.

A HAIRSTYLE FORTY YEARS OLDER THAN THE BRIDE

Emily and Alexander walk down steps after getting married in Italy, holding hands.

Emily’s hairstylist arrived with actual setting rollers, the kind that clip in and need real heat and real time, not the quick heated wand most brides use for beach waves. Emily had sent her one specific reference months earlier: Veronica Lake’s hair from a single black-and-white photograph, one deep side part and a continuous, polished wave running the length of it. That decision, made long before anyone arrived in Positano, shaped almost everything about how her getting-ready morning looked and how I photographed it. Most brides who send me a single reference image send something recent, a look pulled from a wedding they attended or an Instagram post from the past year. Emily’s reference predated her own parents’ wedding by a decade. That specificity, and the fact that she’d clearly thought about it for longer than the average pre-wedding Pinterest search, told me before I’d even met her that this wasn’t going to be a standard coverage day.

Choosing a Style That Isn’t the Current Trend

Most brides I photograph on this coast lean toward soft, undone waves, the loose, beachy texture that reads as effortless even when it took two hours to create. Emily wanted the opposite: structured, deliberate, glamorous in a way that photographs as composed rather than casual, a choice that stands out even across the range of styles I see in a typical wedding in Positano. Old Hollywood styling, the kind Rita Hayworth and Veronica Lake wore on screen, uses a continuous wave pattern and real volume at the crown, which means the hair holds its shape and its shine under direct light in a way that looser styling doesn’t.

Bride in a white gown at Maricanto Hotel, dreaming of getting married in Italy.
Bride in a white gown poses on a balcony, celebrating getting married in Italy.

Why the Style Choice Changes the Photography

A structured style like this rewards a different kind of light than soft waves do. Where beachy waves photograph best in diffused, even light that doesn’t fight with the texture, Emily’s finger curls needed something with more direction and contrast to show the actual wave pattern and the shine along each curl. I positioned her near the room’s window rather than under the room’s ambient overhead light for most of the getting-ready sequence, using the harder, more directional daylight to carve out the shape of each wave rather than flattening it. The difference is subtle in a single frame but obvious across the full sequence: every image has a crispness to the hair that a softer lighting choice would have lost.

The Makeup That Matches the Hair

A vintage hairstyle without vintage makeup reads as a mismatch, and Emily’s makeup artist understood that from the start. The look built around Emily’s hair used a defined winged eyeliner and a deeper, more structured brow than the softer, barely-there makeup most brides request for this coast, where the working assumption is usually that makeup should photograph as nearly invisible in natural light. Emily wanted the opposite: makeup with actual presence, visible structure around the eyes, a look that would hold its own against the boldness of the hairstyle rather than disappearing next to it.

Photographing Structured Makeup in Harsh Light. Defined makeup, particularly winged eyeliner and deeper contouring, behaves differently under Positano’s midday sun than it does in the softer light of early morning or late afternoon. Direct, high-angle sun can exaggerate hard lines in a way that reads as severe rather than glamorous. I timed the closest facial portraits, the ones where the eyeliner and brow structure needed to read clearly, for the window-light portion of the morning rather than any point where she stepped onto a sun-exposed balcony. The softer, more directional quality of window light let the structure of the makeup show without the harshness that direct sun would have added to already strong lines. By the time the ceremony itself approached and the light had shifted to the lower, warmer angle of early evening, the same makeup that needed careful handling at midday photographed beautifully without any adjustment on my end. This is worth knowing if you’re planning a similarly bold look: the same styling choice can need real care in one part of the day and require none at all a few hours later, purely because of how the sun’s angle changes.

Alexander’s Half of the Morning

While Emily’s morning ran long and deliberate, Alexander’s side of the preparation was considerably shorter and considerably less photographed, which is typical and which I didn’t try to correct artificially. He dressed in a navy suit with a white bow tie, sharper and more formal than the linen suits I see most often on this coast, a choice that matched the more classic, structured aesthetic Emily had built her own look around. The couple had clearly discussed the overall tone of the day together, even if the bulk of the visible preparation happened on her side of the hotel.

A Couple’s Aesthetic Working in Both Directions. What’s worth noting is that Alexander’s suit choice wasn’t incidental to Emily’s styling, it was clearly coordinated with it. A navy suit and a white bow tie read as more formal and more old-world than the pastel linen most Positano grooms choose, and that formality matched the vintage glamour of Emily’s hair and makeup rather than contrasting with it. Couples planning a specific aesthetic for their wedding day benefit from thinking about this kind of coordination early, not because the groom’s styling needs equal photography time, but because a mismatch between a bride’s deliberate vintage look and a groom in casual resort wear undercuts the whole effect in the couple portraits later in the day.

The Gold Mirror and the Earring

Emily got ready in a room with an ornate gold-framed mirror mounted on a pale wall, and I used that mirror deliberately rather than incidentally. A bridesmaid helped fasten one earring while Emily looked past the camera toward something outside the frame, the gold of the mirror frame picking up the same warm tone as her hair and the cream silk robe she wore. I shot this from slightly off to the side rather than straight into the mirror, which let the reflection add depth to the frame without turning it into the more common mirror-selfie composition where the photographer’s own position becomes visible in the glass.

Working With a Robe Instead of the Dress. Getting-ready photography almost always happens before the dress goes on, which means the robe carries more visual weight than people expect. Emily’s cream silk robe caught light in a way that a cotton or polyester version wouldn’t, holding a soft sheen along the fabric’s folds rather than absorbing the light flatly. Paired with the vintage hair and the gold mirror, the whole sequence reads as considered rather than incidental, a set of choices, robe, mirror, hairstyle, that reinforce each other rather than existing separately.

Emily and Alexander share a kiss while getting married in Italy, holding a bridal bouquet.
Newlyweds Emily and Alexander pose in a charming Italian street, celebrating getting married in Italy.

The Scrapbook by the Window

Partway through the morning, Emily sat by a window with the shutters partially open and read through a scrapbook, hand-assembled with photographs and handwritten notes, one page marked with a small gold star sticker. I don’t know exactly who put it together, likely her sister or her closest friends, and I didn’t ask her to explain it on camera. I photographed the moment from a low angle, catching the side light falling across her face as she read, her expression somewhere between amused and close to tears, the curls from earlier in the morning now catching the window light directly.

Emily and Alexander share a tender moment while getting married in Italy, with bokeh lights in the background.

Why I Don’t Interrupt Moments Like This

The instinct in commercial wedding photography is often to ask the subject to hold a book up, angle it toward the camera, make the detail legible. I did the opposite here. Emily wasn’t performing the moment of reading the scrapbook, she was actually reading it, reacting to specific pages as she turned them, and any request to adjust her angle for the camera would have broken that. I shot from a position where I could see her face clearly without asking her to change anything, which meant losing some clarity on exactly what was on the page but gaining an expression that was completely unguarded. That trade is almost always worth making. It’s the kind of judgment call any experienced Positano wedding photographer has to make constantly, not just during a scrapbook moment.

The Details on the Dresser Behind Her. The dresser behind Emily in that same window light held its own small collection of details worth noting: a pair of wedding shoes still in their box, a bottle of champagne waiting to be opened later, and a mug printed with her new initial and married name, a gift from someone in the room that morning. None of these objects were arranged by me. They were simply where the morning had left them, and I photographed the dresser as its own quiet still life before Emily sat down with the scrapbook, a wide shot that gives the gallery a sense of the room’s actual state rather than a styled flat-lay assembled specifically for the camera. Detail shots like this work best when they document what’s genuinely there rather than recreate a Pinterest arrangement after the fact.

Newlyweds Emily and Alexander stroll along the beach promenade, a picturesque scene for getting married in Italy.
Couple embracing under veil, Positano village lights glowing, a perfect scene for getting married in Italy.
Bride and groom embrace during their romantic wedding in Italy, with bokeh lights in the background.
Emily and Alexander share a tender moment while getting married in Italy, illuminated by candlelight.

The Terrace Portrait, After Everything Else

By the time Emily and Alexander stood together on the terrace that evening, veil catching the breeze, Positano’s cliffside houses stacked behind them in the fading light, the morning’s careful styling had held exactly as intended, curl for curl, the same continuous wave pattern she’d asked for months earlier still visible in the low evening light. The curls hadn’t dropped. The structure Emily had specifically requested was still visible hours later, which is precisely the practical case for choosing a style built to last through a long day rather than one that looks best in the first twenty minutes and softens from there.

Emily and Alexander share a tender moment while getting married in Italy on a picturesque beach at dusk.

What a Deliberate Style Choice Buys You Over a Full Day

Positano weddings run long, getting ready in the morning, a ceremony in the afternoon or early evening, portraits at golden hour, dinner running late into the night. A hairstyle needs to survive all of it, ideally looking intentional rather than tired by the final portraits. Emily’s stylist used enough product and enough structural pinning beneath the visible curls that the style held its shape through nine or ten hours without a touch-up beyond a bit of extra pinning before the ceremony itself. For brides considering a similarly structured look, that durability is worth discussing directly with your stylist before the day, not something to assume will simply work out.

Bride and groom embracing on a beach at sunset, a romantic scene for getting married in Italy.

Why This Suite Suited the Look

Not every room at Hotel Marincanto would have supported this styling the way the one Emily used did. The suite had period character, an ornate mirror, wooden shutters, warm-toned walls, that read as old-world rather than contemporary, which meant the room itself worked with the vintage aesthetic instead of fighting it. A bride attempting the same Old Hollywood look in a bright, minimalist, all-white modern hotel room would get a genuine visual mismatch: 1940s hair and makeup against 2020s interior design. Emily’s specific suite, with its gold accents and heavier drapery, gave the styling somewhere to belong.

This is worth thinking about specifically if you have a strong aesthetic vision for your own wedding morning, whether you’re planning a full celebration or a smaller Positano elopement. The room you get ready in isn’t neutral. It either supports the look you’re building or quietly undercuts it, and it’s worth requesting a specific suite, if the venue has more than one option, based on how well its interior actually matches what you’re picturing rather than assuming any room will photograph the same way.

Emily and Alexander share a tender moment under a veil, symbolizing their wedding in Italy.

Planning a Styled Getting-Ready Morning of Your Own

If a specific aesthetic, vintage, modern, romantic, matters to you as much as the ceremony itself, it’s worth treating the getting-ready morning as its own creative project rather than a logistical prelude to the real event. That means choosing your hairstylist based on actual reference images you bring rather than a generic consultation, thinking about your robe or loungewear as a genuine part of the photography rather than an afterthought, and building in enough time that the morning doesn’t feel rushed toward the ceremony.

It also means communicating the aesthetic to every vendor involved, not just the hairstylist. Your Positano wedding planner should be looped into this conversation too, not just the glam team. Emily’s makeup artist, her stylist, and I were all working from the same reference point, which meant nobody’s individual choices pulled against anyone else’s. A common failure mode I see with strongly styled weddings is a bride who books a hairstylist and makeup artist independently, each doing excellent work in isolation, that simply doesn’t cohere as a single look once everyone’s in the same room. If you have a specific era or aesthetic in mind, share the same reference images with everyone on your glam team before the day, not just the one vendor you assume it matters most to.

If a planner is coordinating the details of your morning alongside everything else, they’ll want to know about this kind of styling decision well in advance.

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